Dear Strong Women,
How are you doing?
We know things might be going rough as only a strong woman can understand the burden of being strong. Being a strong woman is not a cup of tea for everyone, but you, my strong women, do it anyway because you trust yourself.
Like many of you, we have also paid the price of being strong. Most of the time, we have seen ourselves stuck alone – doesn’t matter whether it is an office or a home. We find ourselves standing like a lioness alone whereas sheep could be easily seen in herds.
After thinking a lot, we have analyzed these 6 reasons why strong women like you and us tend to be stuck in loneliness, while others with meek and weak tend to have company
#1: We Have Our Own Rules
Society laid standards and rules that don’t bother us. We already know what we want from life and how we would stand for ourselves against society. We are fearless individuals who are ready to take a stand for anything that threatens our values.
And, we don’t care what people think of us and hence we tend to break the rules and stereotypes more often than others, which labels us as BADASS!
#2: Our Boldness Scares Them
People are easily scared by our character as we are a no-nonsense person. While approaching the toughest situation or dealing the toughest person, we show strong grit and strength. Sadly, many diplomatic people don’t see it as a positive quality. They find it hard to keep up with our temperament.
#3: We Are Allergic To Fake People
When it comes to people who are not real or genuine, we tend to get an allergic reaction. Hence, when we come across any person who is fake, we feel itchy and our immune system tells us to back off.
We don’t beat around the bush when we have something to say and sometimes we expect the same from people.
The hypocrites and liars stay away from us as they are unable to keep up with our character.
#4: We Are Not Attention Seeking Mongers
Like many attention-seeking mongers, we are highly secure about ourselves. Neither we bring drama to others life nor we encourage people to bring drama into our life.
We don’t show arrogance but its difficult for people to differentiate between character and arrogance.
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#5: People Hate Our Free-Spirit
We love to be independent and live life on our own terms and hence, when people can’t change us they start hating our free spirit.
People couldn’t see how our independence goes side by side with the kindness and compassion that we treat people with.
Given our free spirit, we feel more comfortable to fly alone in the sky rather than being chained in the golden cage.
#6: Our Passion Drives People Crazy
We are highly driven individuals who believe in the power of our dreams. We are unstoppable when it comes to achieving what we believe is ours. Our passion and the need to gain something from life is not what the average people can relate to.
Our standards are normally hard to compete with. And, making it hard to find people who can easily jell with us.
If we feel like we’re not being treated the way we deserve, we don’t give it a second chance and walk away from the person and the relationship.
Also Read: Dear Society, It Is Useless To Raise Independent Daughters If You Don’t Teach Men To Respect Them
We are sure there are many more reasons why we “Strong Women” are more likely to find ourselves “Alone”.
In case you feel we have missed out a reason, please do share.
