Dear Beautiful Women,
Since ages, our society has been measuring us against its shallow norms of BEAUTY!
Many women still find themselves being slaves to the dire need of looking beautiful. Doesn’t matter whatever we achieve in our lives, if we are not slim, fair and tall, then we are subjected to society’s constant rebuke and criticism.
And, if you feel that society has changed as it is the 21st century, then you need to read what a trainer and self-proclaimed writer, Alexander Cortes, posted a few days back.
This post will disgust you as it showcases how some men still measure women against repulsive beauty norms.
In his shameful tweet, Alexander mentioned how women can be the most ‘beautiful’ versions of themselves.
How to be a Beautiful Woman
– Be thin
– Be able to cook
– Have long hair
– Wear make-up
– Be feminine
– Be graceful
– Be Sensual
– Shave (should without saying)
– Be fashionable
– Wear pink and feminine colors
– Love men
– Listen to menStay classy ladies!
— Alexander J.A Cortes (@AJA_Cortes) February 21, 2019
And, then he posted a bonus tip on how to be a woman that ‘men want’. Because that’s what he believes is our only purpose in life!
You can learn more about how to be a feminine and beautiful woman that men want on my newsletter
remember, only a man can tell a woman how to acthttps://t.co/zNvAjrqfeC
— Alexander J.A Cortes (@AJA_Cortes) February 21, 2019
While some sad people liked his ridiculous thoughts, many stood against his rudimentary ideology and gave him the befitting reply.
How to be the best woman:
– just be you
– believe in yourself
– love yourself
– know you are beautiful just the way you are
– listen to your heart
– wear whatever makes you happy
– take time for yourself
– tell this asshat and other asshats like him to ???? pic.twitter.com/Ynfb8fr5In— Mary E. McGlynn (@MaryEMcGlynn) February 22, 2019
But it wasn’t only ladies who found the list disgusting and appalling:Â
How To Find A Beautiful Woman
-Take criteria you have to impress other men and throw them away
-Treat women with respect not in the hopes you might get sex but because it’s kind, it’s decent, it’s right
-Find a woman who loves you for you and you love her for her
-There she is— Max Kennerly (@MaxKennerly) February 22, 2019
Damn and here I was thinking my wife was beautiful without like any of these
— Efran (@EfranManzz) February 21, 2019
I love how all the men roasting him are way more masculine than he even hopes to be.
— Cassidy Ann Tomei (@poletrixnmuscle) February 22, 2019
His list is a reflection of the ugly side of our society that explores every opportunity to make women:
Feel “Less”
Or Feel “Not Good Enough”
In case you are one of us who have suffered from body image issues, then you would understand how this list tends to make women fall in the trap of low self-esteem!
After struggling with body image issues for a long time, we have realized there is no single way of overcoming. Everyone needs to find their own path.
You have to find your own hero. More often than not, that hero is you yourself!
Because even though you can’t control how you look, you can still control who you are or how you feel about yourself!
