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How my daughter’s one question helped me regain my self-confidence

by Alisha Sharma
May 31, 2019

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“What happened, Mom? You look little sad.”, asked my 5-year-old daughter getting ready to venture into a beautiful pool.

Her brown hair shining like gold sands. Mesmerized by her beautiful eyes, I just smiled. I hugged her and asked her to join her father.

But, the question stuck with me. Was I sad? And if yes, then for what? We had been in a beautiful resort which was nothing less than a heaven. The pool was within feet of the gorgeous beach. Instead of enjoying the beautiful resort and vacation, I was lost. I was missing something but what was it. I couldn’t put a finger on it. I quickly changed into my dress to head down to the beach.

It didn’t dawn on me till my husband reminded me about our honeymoon.

Related imageThe only thing that I remembered was how carefree and happy I was at that time. He couldn’t stop talking about how awesome I looked. And, I couldn’t agree with him more. But with each moment he spent talking about how great I was, my heart sank. I couldn’t deny what I wasn’t ready to accept. I wasn’t ready to accept that I hate everything about myself today. I hate my body, my face, pretty much everything.

When I was growing up, I had a perfect figure. My friends would tell me how beautiful I looked. My figure was a constant reason for my friends’ envy. As I had my daughter, I put on weight.  People started expressing concerns about me putting on weight; concerns about my favorite short dresses; concerns about my favorite bathing suits. Tired of listening to people giving their opinions about my body, I decided that it was easier to stay covered up. Even in the summer.

What do I not like about my body exactly?

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Well, there’s no definition but plenty of cellulite. My thighs move even when I’m sitting still. My cankles don’t do my legs any favors, either. While I hate to complain, it’s hard not to notice the flaws when so many friends feel their right to comment your body. For instance, during a party, my friend once remarked about how my “big legs” made a short skirt look even shorter. She was just joking, but what she didn’t know was that I had gone back and forth a hundred times about wearing that skirt in the first place. I felt self-conscious for the entire party after that.

But that day in Goa, when my husband spoke about how he misses my happy self, it hit me that I needed to get over my body issues. Besides paying attention to what people had to say about my body, what kind of harmful example was I setting for my daughter?

What does it tell her if her mother can’t even enjoy life because she isn’t comfortable with her own appearance?

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How will she grow up thinking about herself and what she looks like? Why do I care more about what other people might say or feel about the way I look than wearing clothes that will let me have fun or make me feel more confident and happy?

That evening, I wore my favorite red dress and I can’t tell you how relieved I was. I felt so young; so happy; so Me. It felt as if I have found my lost self after 5 long years. My daughter ran up, sat next to me and said, “Mom you look so beautiful.” I so wanted to tell her how her innocent question made me do soul-searching and finding myself back. How my love for her pushed me to get back control of my life. How she made me believe in myself again.

I just smiled and said:“Momma looks beautiful because she is HAPPY! Thanks to her little angel.”

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