Hey everyone!
I’m 27F, MBA, working, and I’ve just started meeting guys for marriage. Honestly… it’s kinda stressful.
Everyone keeps saying “marry the right person,” but no one really tells you what they mean by “right.”
So I’m curious - what do you guys think?
What qualities should I actually be looking for in a life partner?
What’s important for long successful marriage?
I'd say someone who vibes with your lifestyle. Someone who respects your freedom, your career ambitions, and your hobbies. Humor, honesty, and communication matter a lot. The ‘right’ person isn’t perfect - they just try to make things perfect for you!
I am looking for someone who is fun-loving. I can’t be with someone who is serious and grumpy all the time - even if he has endless money. What’s the point of money if you can’t be happy?
Look for someone who respects you and is willing to share responsibilities equally. Financial stability is important, but more than that, someone who supports your goals and understands your independence is the real deal.
Definitely! Good looks, money, and romance - even if you call me delulu, it’s okay. But a life partner needs to be ‘sarva-gudh sappan’!
After being married for many years, this is what I think worked for me:
- My husband’s sense of humor
- My husband treat me as his EQUAL
- His romance - he still makes me feel like we’re dating
Honestly, don’t just look for someone who’s good-looking. Look for someone who respects you and is ready to stand up for you against the world - even if that means standing up to his own family!