Even though it is 21st century, it is sad how divorce and remarriages are seen as a matter of shame. Sadly, women more then men are being judged for deciding to move on from a toxic relationship or remarry to find love again. In the midst of insensitive taunts and judgmental stares, it takes a lot of courage to get into a wedlock again.
However, this woman and her mother shattered all the negative voices that were stopping them from living their lives to the fullest. A Twitter user ‘@alphaw1fe’ shared a picture of her mother getting her Mehendi done as she’s about to get married, again.
can’t believe mom is getting married GURL U SLAYY pic.twitter.com/Jo5LwlTlRb
— mommy (@alphaw1fe) December 15, 2021
today the ring ceremony was so good i cried also secretly my heart was litr out idek what am i saying but man she finally was looking so pretty with my new dadda i am so lucky have her as my mother istg im the happiest child to see my mom getting married i have real tears
— mommy (@alphaw1fe) December 15, 2021
In this viral thread, this daughter shared how her mother moved out a toxic marriage 15 years ago and finally gathered the courage to remarry after more than a decade.
so so strong every time i pour out and sulk ab it. i’m not crying u r 😭
— mommy (@alphaw1fe) December 16, 2021
The user shared how there was a time when she and her 16-year-old brother weren’t in favor of having a man in their family. But things have changed now.
the fact that me and my 16yo brother weren’t in favor of having a man in our family but NOW? WE’RE SO AO HAPPY TO WELCOME A FATHER FIGURE IN OUR LIVES
— mommy (@alphaw1fe) December 15, 2021
She shared how Trusting men after the incident was tough, but she is glad that her mom finally had faith in someone again.
ISTG I WILL CRY. MOM LITR STARTED TRUSTING MEN AFTER WHOLE 15 YEARS OMG I M GOONA CRY LIKE MUMYs in K3G.
— mommy (@alphaw1fe) December 15, 2021
Netizens came forward to share their love-filled wishes:
Congratulations… As a toxic marriage survivor myself, this makes me so happy. Bless you all!
— Nishtha Khurana (@nishkhurana) December 15, 2021
O I find it so heart-warming when children r so happy for their parents n support them ❤️
— Ruba (@RehmanRpk) December 15, 2021
Don’t mind if I repeat this dialogue
— Suresh kumar (@Kalhona60465479) December 16, 2021
JAA SIMRAN APNA ZINDAGI JEE LE
god bless
Thanks to this heart-warming incident, many spoke up about normalizing divorce and remarriage.
2nd marriage honi chahiye
Muskurane ki wajah honi chahiye
Zina ishi ka naam
Happy to see it
A Women’s heart is as deep as ocean— NightVoyagers 🌜 (@NightVoyagers) December 15, 2021
Divorce should be & must be normalised. F everyone who thinks otherwise. Woman have a right to live her life just bcz she has some kids doesn’t really mean her life is over now. Her whole is ahead of her. It’s so cool that her mother fell in love again. May God bless her.
— Patient Mandeep 2.0 (@Patientonno2) December 16, 2021
Half of the folks would retweet this 🌻 idea on Twitter to sound woke but won’t be conducive to their own mother and sisters at home.
— 🎯🌻 (@imperfect_abhi) December 15, 2021
I tell you they are the real pricks of the social sphere. https://t.co/j01mC9BjIR
Let us normalize widow/divorced women marrying again. Every lady mustn’t be stopped from living their dreams. You’re never late to do what makes you happy. Alhamdulillah for your mother. 💖
— TalHAHA (@TalhaMirza99) December 15, 2021
At IFORHER, we are extremely happy for this family and hope this woman’s inspiring journey will encourage others to find love again in their lives. One bad experience with toxic love shouldn’t make you feel unworthy of love! Do let us know what you think!