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How do I stop loving someone who doesn’t love me anymore? Need help

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(@carefree_queen)
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My relationship with my boyfriend ended 3 months ago, but moving on is so difficult.

I keep crying myself to sleep. My breakup was so abrupt - I did so much for the relationship, but my ex said he wasn’t happy and felt we would be better with someone else.

He even got a new girlfriend immediately after the breakup; within a week, he introduced her to our mutual friends. I don’t know why I’m struggling to forget him. I loved him so much.

What should I do? How can I move on? Can you tell me simple ways to do it?


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(@heart_battles_brain)
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It’s always better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. It’s better that you move on from him! The way he moved on makes it seem like he was never in it for the long haul in this relationship


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(@life_champion)
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He moved so quickly?? I completely understand what you’re going through. It hurts when someone you love moves on quickly, but believe me, your feelings are normal.

Let yourself cry or grieve! Limit contact with him or any news related to him and his new girlfriend - nothing good will come from it.

Spend time with supportive friends, not the ones who bring you down with unnecessary negativity.

Focus on things that bring you joy. Healing takes time, but you will get there. And remember, good things happen to good people!


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(@red_cherry)
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Self-love! Stay busy! Stay positive! Keep telling yourself: he wasn’t worth your love. After seeing how quickly he moved on, he definitely didn’t deserve you!


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(@worried_mommy)
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He moved on quickly? Good. That just proves he wasn’t the one for you! Put on your best smile and start meeting new people - there’s no need to spend another second on someone who doesn’t deserve you.


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(@tired_mommy)
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Your heart is precious. Don’t waste it on someone who doesn’t appreciate you. Stay strong Girl! Move on!


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(@myownhero)
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I know it hurts seeing him move on so fast. But this is your chance to focus on yourself. Cry if you need to, take care of yourself, and surround yourself with people who truly value you. Healing takes time, and you will get stronger


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